When you ruminate and trade in negativity - without ever offering solutions - you're complaining.
There's a distinct lack of people in the second camp. You want people to be able to complain. Fine. Complaints are out there. How do we fix…
When you ruminate and trade in negativity - without ever offering solutions - you're complaining. Which is useless. It's playing the victim. When you talk about issues, problems, hurts, injustices openly and *also* discuss and offer solutions, you're moving in the right direction.
There's a distinct lack of people in the second camp. You want people to b…