Q. I ghosted my toxic girlfriend because I felt devalued and disrespected.

We don’t have to hold on to guilt when we’re doing the right thing for our happiness and our futures.

Q. I ghosted my toxic girlfriend because I felt devalued and disrespected. It’s been 3 months but I feel guilt now. How do I get over it? (via Quora)

A. Standing up for ourselves can feel foreign and uncomfortable if we’ve never done it before — that’s the simplest answer to your question. If you girlfriend was truly toxic to you, then setting boundaries…